Module 6: Letting Go

Letting Go And Getting Your Life Back

Separation doesn’t just end a relationship. It changes who you are. This module helps you move forward — without guilt.

Introduction

Find Your Family’s Way Forward

This module focuses on the internal transition from being a "partner" to being a "solo leader" within your own home. We address the difficult emotional hurdles of the co-parenting journey, such as the anxiety of handover days and the struggle to release control over what happens in the other household. You will learn practical strategies to detach from the conflict, rebuild your sense of self, and establish a new, stable normal for both you and your children.

During this module of the co-parenting course, you’ll get support with:

  • Anxiety when the kids are with your ex
  • Letting go of control without letting go of care
  • Rebuilding identity and stability
  • Creating peace that isn’t dependent on your ex

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Sharyn Green-Arndt

Sharyn has extensive experience in the Family Court as a Court appointed therapist, and as such has vast experience working with high conflict situations.

Lisanne Iriks

Lisanne has vast practical experience in the fields of conflict resolution, coaching, and education.

Dr Phil Watts

Dr Phil Watts is a leading Australian clinical and forensic psychologist with more than 30 years’ experience working with families navigating separation, high conflict, and the Family Court system

Anne-Marie Cade

Anne-Marie Cade, founder of Parenting Coordination Institute and Churchill Fellow, contributes her expertise on Parenting Coordination to our Turning Point course.

Professor Bruce Smythe

Professor Bruce Smythe, one of Australia’s leading family studies researchers, is a valued expert contributor to our Turning Point course

Vicky Pellowe

Vicky Pellowe from The FIFO Family Project shares her specialist knowledge with parents taking part in our Turning Point course.

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About Our Co-Parenting Course

Sharyn Green-Arndt talks you through our co-parenting course, Turning Point.

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Course Content

How Co-Parenting Supports Your Family

For many, the most exhausting part of co-parenting isn't the logistics, but the mental space the other parent continues to occupy. This module is vital because it teaches you how to "emotionally disinvest" from the old relationship. When you stop monitoring, judging, or trying to influence the other parent’s choices, you free up an immense amount of emotional energy that can be redirected toward your children and your own future.

This shift is the ultimate protection for your family. By focusing on your own healing and the atmosphere of your own home, you create a "safe harbour" for your children. It allows them to see that their happiness isn't tied to the conflict, and it gives you the resilience to remain a calm, consistent parent regardless of the challenges coming from the other side.

When parents heal, co-parenting improves — even if the other parent never changes.

Move Forward With Confidence

You can expect to walk away with a newfound sense of independence and a clear plan for your "off-duty" time. You will gain the tools to manage the "empty nest" feeling when the children are away, replacing panic and rumination with a constructive focus on your own well-being and personal goals.

Ultimately, this module provides the closure that legal papers cannot. It empowers you to stop being a "reaction" to your ex-partner and start being the architect of your own life. You will leave with the confidence that you can provide a high-quality, loving, and stable life for your children, anchored in your own strength rather than the state of the co-parenting relationship.

More space to breathe. Less obsession. A sense that your life is yours again.

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FAQs

Frequently Asked Questions

Is this about forgiving my ex?

No. If that’s your goal, it’s going to take some deeper work than a course can provide. This is about setting up a bright future for you. We want to focus on the road in front, not the rear vision mirror.

Does letting go mean giving up boundaries?
Will this help with anxiety when my child is away?
Is this relevant years after separation?
Is this emotionally confronting?
Will I be given evidence-based strategies to support my child?
Do I get a certificate of completion for court?

Disclaimer

These video interactions with our experts are not intended to replace legal advice or therapy. All answers are general in nature. For professional advice tailored to your situation, please consult a licensed legal or mental health professional.

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To help you implement the strategies from the TurningPoint course, every participant receives 3 months of free access to our custom-built co-parenting app, CoOperate.

Developed by an Australian family mediator, CoOperate is designed to move your communication out of your personal inbox and into a safe, organised, and professional space. It’s an essential tool for reducing conflict and keeping the focus where it belongs: on your children.

What’s included in your 3-month access:

  • Shared Parenting Calendar: Effortlessly manage handovers and school holidays.
  • Expense Tracker: Transparently record and manage shared costs.
  • Document Vault: Keep all legal and medical records in one secure location.
  • Centralised Messaging: A safe, court-ready forum for all communication, avoiding the frustration of scattered texts and emails.

By the time you finish the course, you won’t just have the skills to co-parent better - you’ll have the digital infrastructure to make it happen every day.

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